Just be TRUE

Hello,

I just don't get people that are not true.  To others and to themselves.  Why spend time kidding yourself of who you really are when you are who you are?  Unless you accept the truth about yourself, you have no business judging anyone else, as far as I am concerned.  If there is anything about me that my true friends know...  it is that I can hardly keep my mouth shut when I don't like someone and I really would rather not deal with them.  PERIOD.  I am courteous, but not fake.  I won't small talk with you if I don't like you...  I won't invite you over if I don't like you, I won't act like I like you when I don't.  PERIOD.  There is not enough time in this world to love those you love, let alone be fake with those you don't like.  I would rather spend my extra time (if I had any) with a colony of lepers than fake people.  I cannot stand when someone is not true.  And the worst part is, they are only hurting themselves and selling themselves short because everyone else around them knows who they are.  People, please just take a look in the mirror and really SEE who you are.  I do every day.  And I am not perfect but I truly know and accept my weaknesses and work on strengthening them.  But the point is, I see, realize, acknowledge, and am aware of my weaknesses.  SOME people just DON'T!  Or maybe they just CAN'T.  I don't know.  But I really feel sorry for them.  It doesn't matter what you wear, how you look, what you drive, where you live...  just be TRUE about who you are.  That's what matters in the end, nothing more, nothing less.  I want a HUGE crowd at my funeral, but I want them to come because they TRULY loved me and will miss me, not because they feel they have to!  Jeez...  what kind of life is that?  I love people...  I am a very social butterfly and for whatever reason, as brutally honest as I can be to people, I am well liked by many.  NOT by all, but many.  That's the kind of life and legacy I want to leave behind.  I want people to know the REAL me... not who I wanted to be or who I acted like being.  If I don't like who I am, how do I expect anyone else to like me?  I am a straight shooter and I am very black and white.  As an adult, I cannot always choose to be around only those I like, but I am true about it.  Like I said, I won't be rude but I won't waste my breath, energy, or time on anyone I don't like.  You all know who you are...  hahaha!  Just kidding. 

Insecurity is the root of many evils and this is definitely a character trait of these people that are UNTRUE.  How can you be true to anyone else if you can't be true to yourself first?  Don't you deserve that?  Come on people, don't do it for me, do it for yourself!  

Love,

Me